Well I solved the problem. I hooked up my laptop to a port replicator with multiple monitors and opened SU / ConDoc. And there it was the ConDoc Toolbar and Configurator were on the other screens. I moved them back to my main laptop screen and saved the SU file closed and reopened. The now remembered their new home just on my laptop screen.
So the lesson here is if using multiple monitors and you use multiple computers with different display configurations make sure you save your SU / ConDoc file so all ConDoc Toolbar and Configurator are saved to the screen you will be using next.